HOW TO START BELIEVING IN YOURSELF

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BELIFE IS NOT ONLY A BIBLICAL WORD

“YOUR MIND IS YOUR STRONGEST HIDDEN WEAPON TRAIN ITA ND THE REST WILL FOLLOW”

Believing in yourself is the only way you can reach your full potential;

Before we go any further lets make this clear,    I still struggle with belief on some occasions once in a while. This is often noticed when I feel I cannot do something and I am still in doubt with myself. So please as you read this just know I am a victim who is trying to get out of the situation and so far so good,

Just a little back ground why I am writing this, I hear and see a lot of people struggling with believing in themselves and I totally get this for sure. I grew up in Africa my whole childhood and teenage life, so it was difficult to really try and put myself out their, especially due to the fact that I went to a boarding school and we were more than 30, 000 students locked up in a fence, so you can imagine for sure.  I never believed in myself, that I could actually achieve anything, or be anyone but this changed when I decided to follow some quick steps and I started  reading more but this happened with me identifying what my set backs are Which are belief and Fear.

So in this blog, I am going to show you or tell you some of the  ways you have to start from in order to believe in yourself. Most Christians  reading this blog might have already practiced it and probably said it a million times ( I believe) but the question is “do you  believe in what you are saying or you  are just saying it for the sake of just saying It”.

Enough with the rambling lets start

  1.  SELF ACCEPTANCE

The very first things is to learn to accept yourself for who you are and what you are , how can you fully believe in something that you don’t accept. We cannot choose parts that we think  we like about ourselves and leave the rest, you must fully accept what you are, and if you don’t like that part then work on it but you must accept you.

This may be difficult in many ways because as children growing up we are slightly dedicated to what we think we are, by determining what we do and  conclusions are made. At some point in your life you probably  felt that this is not right and  true and  you feel you are something else or your true self is not what the society thinks of you.  For me till now no matter how many good things I try to do, I sometimes feel that people will not accept it because they have a self believe in themselves that ” this is who she is “. however,  I am here to tell you that, you have to try and understand who you are and what you  are then  accept it, no matter what society  says.

2. MAKE A LIST

Make a list of things you feel you  want to accomplish and do not leave out anything you must put down everything and believe, say it out loud that I believe I am going to be successful, I believe I am going to  be better.  And everyday cross the ones you have managed to accomplish and trust me it feels great.  In this list make sure to set some goals that you want to accomplish  see how much progress you are making.

3. BE AROUND UPLIFTING FRIENDS

The worst mistake you can ever make is trying to be around people who don’t believe in you and are constantly putting you down. Minimalize your contact with them, because  it may not be the right thing to get red of them  at the moment but,  limit what you say or do around them because you know they are critical people and this does not help if you are on  a journey or self belief.

4. READING, LERANING AND GROWING

You have to put yourself in a position of learning about yourself and understanding your limitations, as well as self awareness. Learn more about yourself by going beyond your limitations and doing things you thought you would never do . Try to read more of motivation books that will give you a heads start, for example, I am currently reading two books yes people, two books one is about the 9 to 5 if you are in the UK you know what  I mean by 9 to 5 and the other book  is about Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway. These books put a smile on my face, and constantly make me feel better and grow my mind as well. If you want me to give you full details on these books   please email me at thelucy.a57@gmail.com and I will for sure give you more details on these. Do some sort of self exploitation attend events, understand how the world is and how it works. If you have social medial follow the right people that give you more to learn than desire.

5. STOP COMPARING YOUSELF

This is something that everybody does for sure, but have you ever thought to yourself that, we are not all the  same in terms of personalities and who we are, so why do you think someone’s else’s success should be the same as yours. Be confident in yourself and What you have accomplished I always say every little success to anther step is a big win

STOP COMPARING AND FIND YOU

Stop comparing in terms of image, career, success relationships. yours is yours and not anybody else. You have the power to accomplish anything.

“YOU HAVE THE POWER TO BE ANYTHING THAT YOU WANT, BUT FIRST BELEIVE IN YOUR SELF AND STOP COMPARING”

With that, I want to wish all my readers that have come to the end of this blog good luck with all your endeavour’s, to find yourself but first remember you are the most important thing in this world Fuck the rest haha.

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