Hello everyone my new readers and my old ones welcome once again. First i would like to start by apologising to all of you for my absence on my blog I am fully aware i have been missing for almost 4 months. I will just be honest and say i have been really lazy, feeling unmotivated, i had lost my sense of direction and i kept on questioning myself on what exactly i want from the life i am living now .
So i completely took some time off to decide what i want and which way to go. I will not lie to you I am still figuring that out till now but I hope to surely find the answers that i seek. If you have gotten this far reading my apology then thank you and lets get to the real reason you might have clicked on this particular topic.
HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN 2018.
I have got a video on this topic on my Youtube channel so feel free to check it out.
My year in review for 2017 was a hard experience I learnt a lot and let go of so much and understood so much. That is why i decided that my 2018 will not be the same as ex 2017. so these are the ways you can make your year in 2018 a better one.
1. PRAY AND BE THANKFUL
You need to be very thankful for what you have got and be thankful for what you will get. Dont feel bad that you have not accomplished a certain thing in life just be grateful that you have got life and thats your second chance to keep trying. When you wake up in the morning say a little prayer and say thank you . This is a form of appreciation, and appreciating what you have got in life.
2. DONT GIVE A SHIT OR A FUCK.
Okay now you are wondering why is Lucy swearing but guys please try not to give a shit of a fuck about what other people say at all, just do you and be you. Enough with listening to the little voices in your head telling you that their opinions are worth your time. Remember nobody is worth your time if they cannot make you feel some type of way in a positive way. I would say be your own boss this year and control your life.
3. BE HUMBLE, HONEST , PATIENT AND KIND
we are always caught up in a lot of situations in life, were we think we should show the other person or people what we are truly made of, if they say something negative to us.
But we forget that our actions speak a lot about us. So I would advice you to try to be patient even in situations were all that is being said is negative, be true and honest to yourself by understanding who you are as a person and accepting it, dont live in denial at all. My rule in life is “IF YOU ARE NOT HONEST TO YOURSELF, I DONOT EXPECT YOU TO BE HONEST TO ME EITHER”. In life we are taught not to be arrogant but rather humble but we end up being caught up in letting other people over step us just because we want to stay humble, all i can say is be humble to a degree that your soul can take It dont let anyone take your power or control in life . Be kind to every single person in life even though you dont know them.
4. AVOID NEGATIVITY
Dont let negativity people near you, you are too precious for that. To be honest we all have our own secret battles and when we surround ourselves with negative people we end up reaching breaking point and getting into the depression mode because we have not detached ourselves away form the negativity that preys on us like parasites . Negativity does not only come from people but from you as well , so dont live in denial of them just acknowledge that they are their, dont fight them but understand them and keep feeding your mind with positive thoughts.
” YOU OWN A CAR WHICH IS YOUR LIFE,YOU ARE THE DRIVER AND YOU CAN DECIDE WHICH DIRECTION TO GO , WHETHER TO TURN LEFT OR RIGHT ITS YOUR DECISION, DO NOT LET THE PASSENGERS IN THE CAR DICTATE WHAT YOU SHOULD DO ( Those are the tiny little voices in your head)
There you have it my tips on how to have an amazing 2018. They might not be the best our their but if they can help on or two people out their then thats good.
I promise sam now back and looking forward to happy year and good blogging. Don’t forget to check out my channel as well.